So, hello.
Only girls will understand the meaning of the text and my thoughts.
So.
I'm a content creator. Photography, blogging... It brings me joy. To share content with other people, I surf the internet in general and social media in particular.
There I find both normal people and outright idiots who don't care about boundaries or restrictions or anything else. Actually, that's what I'll talk about today.

I have a boyfriend, and everyone who visits my accounts knows it. I think so, but unfortunately, not everyone knows and understands it. Especially if it's a single guy looking for a girlfriend for a romantic relationship. Or some sugar daddy (I fucking hate them).
Why do I hate them all? Because they think that social networks = dating and relationship sites. I hasten to break them through what they see the world: FUCK YOU ALL. Social networks like Instagram, Tumblr, Clover.Space are designed to SHARE CONTENT, not to find a partner. That's what Snapchat and other dating sites are for.
Well, that's not the worst of it. But what irritates me is that some single guys are looking for a relationship with a girl who is ALREADY in a relationship with her BELOVED boyfriend. For example, in my case. In one of the parts of the site I hinted at him, but what his name is, who he is and where he is from, I will not write, because it is very confidential. Especially if a girl writes that she is already in a loving relationship, and these lonely guys pester her... Horrible. But what is even worse is if the girl turned them down, then they start to bully her on the Internet (or in some specific social network) and involve their (these guys') friends in this. This is called disrespect. Disrespect for a girl as a normal living girl and not a bot from OnlyFans. It's disrespectful to a girl who says "no" when necessary. It's disrespectful to a girl's rights.
If guys think that men and their opinions have always played a role in society, then as a historian I will tell them: you are wrong. At the dawn of humanity, millions of years ago, society was matriarchal. Accordingly, women were considered the main ones in society and their opinion was an authority. Until the evolution in the economy and so on happened.
And now we return to the present. Why do most women hate men in today's society? Because some are so sex-obsessed that they see no boundaries. As one idiot wrote to one girl (whose name I will also not write) on Instagram, "women are created only for sex". If only he knew how wrong he is. Women are created to live the way they want. (I am a woman, but I am not a feminist). If these men don't have the "respect for a woman as she is and her opinion as it is" function in their brains, then since when am I obliged to call them men?! I don't owe these idiots anything. I am not obliged to enter into a relationship with them if that's what they want. But I don't want to. And I don't give a damn about their perverted desires. I don't care what they think. If I don't want any other relationship than with my boyfriend, then I won't do it. They have no rights to me, my life, my personality. If I say no, I mean no. I'm not interested, I won't do it.
But unfortunately, some guys don't understand this. Then they get angry, and with the help of their friends, they start to bully the girl (and possibly her boyfriend) on the Internet (and possibly in real life).
I understand that these may be natural instincts, but there is a concept of a boundary. Boundary -> respect, in this case. But for some particularly horny guys these concepts and the word "no" do not exist. Okay, then their wishes don't exist for me :D But seriously, I don't care either. About their lives. About their desires. For me, they are nobody. Just those who call themselves male.

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